Here is a little piece I wrote a while back and feel ready to share with you….
All I Want…
Is for you to hold me in your arms like I am the only one who has any right to be there
To sink into your embrace, knowing, deep within the core of my being, that I am yours and you are mine
To hold each other to the fire of our truth and be there, wide eyed, serious, sincere
That’s what I want.
Sometimes we are so busy trying to get back to where we thought we should be by now that we miss out on the joy that is right under our noses….
I feel all over the place today… I woke up from a restless sleep with the wind moaning and rain pelting against the windows of our little lodge house and my daughter Elena and our dog Sugar curled up in the bed next to me. My first awareness was Elena saying “I need a big hug, Mummy” as she had had a nightmare about dragons, swiftly followed as per usual by my thoughts of the busy schedule of the day ahead. Continue reading “Tune in to your felt-sense”
Human beings are curious by nature. The desire to explore, find out, wonder, understand is an essential human trait. And it is the basis of discovery – scientific, technological, creative, personal. That willingness to be in the questioning, in the openness of wondering, has led to innovation & advancement and the power of curiosity is increasingly understood as a gateway to a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
When did you last do something out of pure curiosity and where did it lead you? This instinct came naturally to us as children, when we had curiosity coursing through our bodies, excitedly exploring new experiences. Asking a 100 questions… Wanting to know Why?! Curiosity ruled our senses. Enthusiasm ignited our actions. We weren’t afraid of what we didn’t know – instead we thrived on the process of discovery. As we get older, however, while the thirst for knowledge does not necessarily wane, we can stop being so openly inquisitive and rather favour order, certainty, security, and a certain way of making sense of the world. Ironically, it is only once we become adults that our brains are developed enough to process new discoveries and turn them into concrete ideas and strategies.
Continue reading “Why be curious?”
I starting creating vision boards about 10 years ago when a group of friends and I would get together at the beginning of the year to make a collage to represent what we wanted to create for our year ahead. It was a social event and it was a good excuse to get together and share our dreams – whether it was a new job, new kitchen or new relationship or to let go of something we didn’t want in our lives any more.
I love this photo of Dame Helen Mirren by Robert Zukerman. I’ve seen this post floating around FB for a while. It appeared in my news feed again today, and once again, the words from Brene Brown quoted in the post deeply resonated. Helen Mirren is now a poster woman for aging gracefully and being sexy at 70 – “the new 40” apparently. Whatever Helen Mirren was thinking at the time this was taken or whatever it is supposed to portray, what I love is that it feels like she is saying “Here I am. This is me. Take it or leave it.”